Dad ! Is It You

From: tonya (tonyafagan@yahoo.com)
Story type: Ghost
Location: Costa del sol
Source: Form Submission

well to start with my dad died when i was 11 years old. this september he's ten years dead. ever since he died i have always wanted he to come visit me but it never happened. i have always beleived in ghost .so two years ago i moved to live in spain with my boyfriend. both of us origanally come for ireland. well bacially ever day since my father died i wished he'd come to visit but it never happened .then one day i was talking to a lady about life after death and she told me never to wish for a loved one to come coz it will never happen. so i took her advise and did not wish for my father to come to me. so about a month later ,my boyfriend our friend and i ,was in our house having a few drinks, soon i got tired and when to bed. i was in my room about to go to sleep when i got a strange feeling of a presence in the room with me. since it was the first time anything like this happened i got a little scared and got up and went to the bathroom, when i came back in the bedroom it was frezzing which doesn't happen in spain in the summer. so i got back into bed and i was lying the way my father did when i felt something stroking my hair as if to put me to sleep. it kinda scared me but when i thought it was my father i was ok. nothing else happened that night but i know he's still with us. my mother came on a holiday to spain and stayed with us and she to had a feeling my father was there. then on another night my boyfriend was out and i was in the house with our dog. we were sitting on the couch (me and the dog) when all of a sudden the dog sarted going crazy barking at the other side of him and scraching the couch. that same night i went to turn off the light went i see this little ball/flash of light which was gone in an instance. now i don't get scared , it's just my loved one, but since then i have moved to a different villa and was wonder if anyone knows if a spirit will follow you. i really want my father to come again but well he foollow me? i don't know. if anyone would like to know anything or have an answer please e-mail @ tonyafagan@yahoo.com